So a while ago near the beginning of the year I used to have such a major crush on this one boy. And he liked me back so we were going to plan out lunch but we had a falling out so we stopped talking. I felt like he ignored me since I asked him what's wrong and if he wanted to reschedule it but he never said anything back. I moved on and I heard he was a player too.
But then he wrote me a sorta love letter today i guess ? He asked me how I've been, he really does like me and he's sorry for his awkwardness. Also he feels bad about making me sad :0 Something else about he wants me to know how he feels and if I want to have lunch again - lol the irony.
Then his friend questioned me today. And i asked her if he liked anybody else and she told me no. People just think he likes them.
What do you think? Is this genuine? I'm not planning on liking him again because I already had all my feelings sorted out im just curious as to why he would do this.
Answer on Hm why would he do this? (Capricorn men T.T)?
I do not spot the irony in any of this.
Thats just it - you CANT plan on liking someone. It just happens. You can PLAN on how to go about it whether you want to or not.
I say give him the benefit of the doubt. No harm in second chances. If he continues this behavior, remove him from your life, and move on. Its as simple as that.
You wont feel bad, because you gave him the benefit of the doubt and he just did not measure up.