Thursday, April 5, 2012

I'm afraid of my neighbor, what do I do?

My mum said she had a funny feeling about him, and at first I didn't believe her, I thought he was rather genius and that she was just awkward about him because he has a lot of differing opinions, but now I kind of see where she's coming from.

Usually he is not home when I get back from school but today he was and he passed by me in his car and he waved. When I got to the parking lot he was still in his car, and EXACTLY when I passed behind the car, he stepped out and said, "hey, how are you?" and I saw this weird look in his eyes, some sort of intensity but he was holding it back. He had previously loaned me a book and he asked me how it was and I told him and he said, "well I've got the rest in the series and if you want the next book just tell me. And feel free to just come up and vibrate if you want (he's got one of those vibrating weight-loss machines), just ring the doorbell." I said okay and he said, "even if your mum's not home." And he stared at me the same way and said, "you're safe, you have nothing to worry about" as if he knew what my mum told me about not going up to his house if she wasn't home.

So now I've got yet another thing on my hands. And I'm one of those people-pleasers so even if someone makes me uncomfortable I won't tell them because I don't want to hurt their feelings. I'm afraid one day he's just going to say, "come on up I have something to give you" and I'm going to be molested again. I get in all sorts of weird sexual situations because I just never say 'stop!' What do I do? Please help.

Answer on I'm afraid of my neighbor, what do I do?

Omg this guys a creeper!!! I'm sorry about you getting molested! My own brother did to me. :/ It's horrible. Anyways, tell your mom what he said IMMEDIATELY! He is a strange man, that's for sure. I mean telling a kid to come when your moms not over and that you have nothing to worry about. Ohh, I just remembered something interesting. I read a rape/molestion paragraph just yesterday it said, before they take action they say things like '' i don't bite. you have nothing to worry about'' things to reel you in. I don't want to scare you though. I do want to be honest for you sake! Tell you mom hun. Immediately! Okay!? This dude isn't safe! Hope I helped xxx